Tuesday, May 15, 2018
When men says no
Friday, May 4, 2018
FRUITFULNESS
The 9 months journey was not an easy one. The devil struck again, trying to abort the pregnancy prematurely. At 12 weeks of the pregnancy, I had a ruptured and twisted ovary (the pains hennn!!! was out of this world). The fibroid was growing bigger and was contending for space with the twins. The doctor had to perform cervical cerclage (tying of my cervix) to avoid the pregnancy from being pushed out. I was placed on an injection every 6 hrs just to make the lining of my womb thickened to hold the pregnancy and I was placed on bed rest for two months. When the pain of the ruptured cyst was becoming too much, my husband became scared. He had to tell the doctors to abort the pregnancy and removed the ruptured ovary. He said he still needs me alive and we could go for adoption.
Thursday, March 15, 2018
Marriage killer
_*DID YOU KNOW THE VIRUSES THAT KILL MARRIAGES?*_
· *Laziness* kills marriage
· *Suspicion* kills marriage
· *Lack of trust* kills marriage
· *Lack of mutual respect* kills marriage
· *Unforgiveness* kills marriage _(Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)_
· *Arguments* kill marriage
· *Keeping secrets from your spouse* kills marriage
· *Every form of infidelity* kills marriage _(financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)_
· *Poor communication* kills marriage
. *Lies* easily kill marriage, _(be sincere to your spouse in every aspect)._
· *Relating more with your parents than your spouse* kills marriage
· *Nagging* kills marriage
· *Too much talk and careless talk* kills marriage
· *Spending less or little time with your spouse* kills marriage
· *Being too independent minded* kills marriage
· *Love for party, money and spending/partying* kills marriage
· *Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings or friends* kills marriage
· *Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit* kills not only marriage but your life
· *Spurning correction and reprimand* kills marriage.
· *Always wearing a sad face and being moody* kills marriage.
· *FEMINISM ADVOCACY* kills marriage.
· *Uncontrolled or hot temperament* kills marriage.
· *Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God* kills marriage.
· *Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse* kills marriage
· *When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.*
· *Lack of knowledge of the Word of God* kills marriage.
_*Please, save a marriage today by sharing this.*_
_May God bring healing to every troubled home and family._
*Amen.*
Monday, February 26, 2018
My wife os a Christian
*MY Wife is a Christina*
Richard said_ :
My wife is a Christian.
She lets me live my life. She doesn’t talk to me about anything biblical. She doesn’t curse me. She respects me as her husband and always asks for permission when going to church, to use the car and lot things. She keeps washing my clothes. She has never thrown away any beer in the fridge because she is a Christian.
She has never refused me sex because I am drunk. That woman is a Christian.” His friends stopped laughing. “You really mean this?” Daniel asked, “I think she claims she is Christian because you haven’t really tested her faith. She is pretending.” “No. No. No. She doesn’t pretend. She just lives the life of a Christian,” Richard defended. “What if we really test her faith? To see if she is the real deal?” Andrew dead-panned “I would not treat my wife that way. She is a good woman. She respects me and I wouldn’t go that extra mile,” Rich said adding: “Right now I am ashamed to even bring beer into the fridge again.” “I knew u were lying to us,” John said laughing mockingly. “Okay guys we can test her,” Richard agreed in resignation. “But I can assure you we will not break her.”
STAGE ONE OF THE TEST :
The tests began. From entering the house with his friends with soiled shoes, to eating all relish meant for the whole day, to drinking beer at the living room and living it very messy, Richard wife never complained. She never showed a sad face. She was always glad. In her heart she always sang the song “MUST JESUS BEAR THE CROSS ALONE AND ALL THE WORLD GO FREE”
STAGE TWO
This Saturday Richard came with his friends at 11:30 PM. Though his wife was asleep, he woke her up and demanded that she cook nsima for his 3 friends too. His wife never complained. She did that and when she was done she told her husband and his friends to go and eat. But Richard took the plates and threw them down shouting the food was undercooked and she had to cook again. His wife came to him graciously and kneeled down and said: “I am sorry honey.
I never meant to embarrass you in the presence of your friends. I am sorry the food was under-cooked. I will prepare you another meal.” It was Andrew who started crying. Then Daniel and John joined him. They threw themselves to the floor crying, their hands raised in the air in surrender.
Richard her husband also came apart uncontrollably. “I want to serve the God you serve. Take me to Him,” John said tears flowing freely down his cheeks.
Andrew said the same thing and did the rest.
They accepted CHRIST that day. They became born again. This story teaches us that sometimes God places us in situations deliberately so that we can win souls to HIM.
Are you experiencing a bad situation? There is a reason why God has allowed you to go through that.
Wednesday, February 7, 2018
God has been faithful
I met a friend of mine today that I hadn't seen in about 10years, I asked how he has been and he said "It hasn't been easy, but God has been faithful even when all hope was lost. He went ahead and told me his story which left me in tears... In his words..."I'm married with three children, I lost my job about two years ago and I searched for a new one to no avail. Things were really hard and at some point, we couldn't even feed, I kept going around asking for help... Then sometime last year., my last child who is just one had an issue with his scrotum and needed surgery, we were asked to pay #150, 000. I didn't have a single dime on me. I ran from pillar to post but nothing came out of it. Everyone gave different stories...So one night, I couldn't bear the whole thing anymore, so I decided to take my life. I waited for my wife and children to go to bed, I bid them goodnight and after I had made sure they were asleep, I took the rope, went to the sitting room and stay on the sofa...
I decided to wipe off every thing on my phone before hanging myself, but while I was looking at the phone, I decided to just rest my back and somehow I slept off(I don't know how that happened)slept from 12am-3am, woke up to two missed calls on my phone, both unknown
One international number and one national number, I called the national number, no one picked, I flashed the international number and the person called back, it was Dele (we all went to secondary school together) and he said "guy I don dey find your number a these years"
"i got it from my younger brother who got it from someone else sha. I got it about three days ago, I dey work now, but something just say make í call you this night. How you dey?" Sola, I burst into tears, like why this night" I looked at the rope which was still on the table,
Went inside, looked at my wife and couldn't stop crying, Dele kept asking "guy wetin dey worry you now, talk to me" I told him everything and he was like "guy, na because of dawan you dey cry? I go call you for morning.
First thing in the morning he asked his bro to transfer 200k to me, just like that, though I still haven't gotten a job, but now I know that I have a God who sees me and cares deeply for me... I asked him if I could share his story and he said it was okay.
See ehn, it doesn't matter what you are going through, you see this God, He sees you, He cares about you, He says He'll never leave or forsake you, through every shadow and every mountain... And He never lies. When He says it, He means it💝
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