Tuesday, May 15, 2018

When men says no

     




When men says no
God says yes to every situation and everyWHEN MAN SAYS NO GOD SAYS YES TO EVERY SITUATION AND EVERY CIRCUMSTANCE IN YOUR LIFE!!!…
YES TO YOUR HEALING!!!…
YES TO YOUR MARRIAGE BEING RESTORED!!!…
YES TO YOUR HOME BEING SAVED FROM FORECLOSURE!!!…
YES TO YOUR LOVE ONE BEING DELIVERED FROM DRUGS!!!…
YES TO YOU GETTING EMPLOYED!!!…
YES TO YOUR CHILDREN BEING DELIVERED!!!…
YES TO YOUR FAMILY BEING SAVED!!!…
NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH AS LONG AS YOU REFUSE TO BE MOVED BY WHAT YOU SEE!!!…
FEEL!!! OR HEAR!!!…
BUT DETERMINE TO TRUST AND BELIEVE GOD ANYHOW!!!…
“What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31)

FORGET THE MISTAKE


Friday, May 4, 2018

FRUITFULNESS





FOLASADE’S STORY OF FRUITFULNESS – FROM RIDICULE TO MIRACLE
I got married to my husband Olumuyiwa in December 2006. My problems started before I got married. I used to have irregular periods and a very heavy menstrual flow with lots of blood clot right from my secondary school days. I was taken to the hospital, got treated with antibiotics and a whole lot of other medications, though it helped a little but I was not cured completely.
I started getting anxious but not worried that I wasn’t pregnant a year into my marriage and that was the beginning of my journey to several doctors. I consulted various gyneacologist who gave different diagnosis.
In 2007, I was diagnosed with blocked fallopian tubes. After carrying out the HSG (fallopian tube test), the doctor then inferred that he would need to get the tubes flushed perhaps the blockage could be removed. He did carryout the procedure, a very painful experience!
After 6 months, still no pregnancy, I moved to another hospital. The new gyneacologist had to repeat the entire fertility test again and the ever painful HSG test. My husband then joined me to run test after so much persuasion and pleading.
We were so taken aback when the doctor came up with another report that I had a fibroid, an ovarian cyst and blocked fallopian tubes; and my husband- low sperm counts. It’s like we were given a death sentence. It was overwhelming!!!
He then advised that we should go and try IVF (ASSISTED CONCEPTION) as there was no means of natural conception due to all the fertility issues that we had.
I wept bitterly and I was angry with GOD but in the face of all these challenges, I BELIEVED IN MIRACLES. We continued in prayers, fasting and sacrificial offering
In 2009, my husband and I agreed to give the IVF a try. We were disappointed because it came out negative. At this point I didn’t know what to do again than to continue asking God for mercy and divine healing.
I was already getting pressure from family and my in-laws. I got all sorts of insults and negative talk in family gatherings. Sometimes I wept secretly and pretended that everything was alright.
In 2010, we attended a church service (Covenant day of fruitfulness) at Winner’s chapel where Bishop Oyedepo was ministering on fruitfulness. He said ‘fruitfulness is a commandment that all mankind and every living thing should fulfill’ Genesis 8:17. He said ‘‘you must be fruitful irrespective of the obstacles or difficulties, because the almighty God has commanded it’’. I keyed into the ministrations and at that point I was determined to fulfill that commandment despite any medical setbacks.
As I continued to believe God and trusting him for a miracle, I suddenly fell so sick, experiencing so much pain around my right pelvis. I visited the hospital again. After series of test and intrauterine pelvis scan, I was diagnosed with PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) and endometriosis (a disorder in which the tissue that forms the lining of the uterus grows outside the uterine cavity). In my own case a large cyst (tissue) was growing on my ovary filled with fluid (dark red blood). As days and weeks passes, the cyst became bigger and bigger along with an excruciating pain.
The doctor then advised that the cyst must be punctured and the fluid drains out if I must be relieved of the pains. He warns that it was just a temporary solution because as long as I menstruate, the cyst will continue to draw blood to itself.
So every month, for 4 consecutive months my ovary was being punctured and more than a liter of blood was being drained out every time. My sister, the experience was so overwhelming, the pains was so intense. I couldn’t pray again. I was drained spiritually, physically, financially, emotionally. I became angry with GOD and my spouse. I was wearied, but I didn’t give up.
Then in 2011 July, I heard about healing school of Christ embassy through my sister in-law, Funke who was a member of the church. I decided to attend. At this juncture, I knew it’s only God that could heal me of all the ailments as endometriosis has no cure. It could only be managed.
From the first day of the program, I received my healing because my faith and my spirit man were awakened by the teachings from the word of GOD. I laid my entire fertility problem on the altar of God and was ready to be set free.
On the last day of the healing school, Pastor Chris was ministering; he approached me and touched my side where I had the big cyst. I felt a chilly sensation throughout my body. Right then and there, I knew my healing was absolute and complete.
I went back home with so much faith and I continued with my faith confessions, listening to messages from men Of God and preoccupied my mind with meditations and supplications. Reading and listening to testimonies of others really helped my faith and I became absolutely sure that if GOD could answer couples that had similar fertility issues as ours, we too can have a testimony.
In October 2011, my husband and I travelled to Canada for his sister’s 40th birthday celebrations. We then attended a program with them in their church at RCCG BRAMPTON. In the middle of the ministration, the guest minister just pointed at me and asked me to sit on his chair and he then gave me his jacket to put on. I could not understand what was going on. He then prophesied that by this time next year (2012) I will be carrying a son(s) and his name shall be called Paul after his name. I RECEIVED IT, GRABBED IT and RAN with it.
To confirm these prophesy, my brother came back from Shiloh 2011, he said papa Oyedepo of winners was prophesying that there was a woman who had been written off medically that if she could only believe that with God nothing shall be in possible, she shall have double. My brother went to the altar and received my children on my behalf. He gave me a bible and on it was written” ON THIS DAY SHILLOH 2011, I RECEIVED TWIN BOYS FOR YOU ADESALU FOLASADE” FOR YOUR SHAME YOU SHALL HAVE DOUBLE BECAUSE THE LORD HAS COMMANDED IT. ISIAH 61:7
That became my strength, my watchword and I immediately named the twins. I pasted the names on my wall in the bedroom. Every morning and night, i will call them forth to manifest. I started calling myself “Iya ibeji”. My prayer point became ”God confirm the word of your servants and perform the prophesy that had come forth into my life and my marriage” Isaiah 44:26. After which I will give him praise for answered prayers.
Then the devil brought back its ugly head again trying to challenge my healing (I knew it was a test of faith). The pain of endometriosis returned and this time the pain was indescribable. At a time I passed out on the hospitable table where I was undergoing a procedure. It took divine intervention for me to return back to life. So the chief gynaecologist advised that I should travel to India for a major surgery where the ovaries will be removed before it will degenerate to ovarian cancer. I cannot lie, I was shaken but I still believe in creative miracles (a book written by Catherine Kummer).
We agreed to go for the surgery in India because I believed whether there are ovaries or not, the word of God will still be fulfilled. 2 days to the time I was to travel to India, I suddenly became sick and tired. I thought it was fatigue and the fear of surgery I was to undergo. My former colleague at PZ Cussons Plc, now advised that I should run a blood test. I didn’t take her serious but she kept ringing my phone that I should stop by at any lab and do a test not knowing it was God using her to tell me to do that test before travelling to India for surgery in less than 48 hrs
Alas!!! the blood test came out positive. I was diagnosed PREGNANT for the first time in 6yrs. I marveled, I couldn’t believe it. I ran to another lab to reconfirm the result, it was same. Our JOY knew no bound. WE WERE GRATEFUL. Even my doctors could not explain the pregnancy. One of the doctor even call it “a chemical pregnancy”. they said it’s not a true pregnancy, the fetus will not grow.. bla… bla…bla….I TOLD THEM I WILL COME BACK IN 9 MONTHS WITH TWIN BABIES(Because the Lord had said it), even though I haven’t done the scan to confirm it, but I was convinced I was having twins.
The 9 months journey was not an easy one. The devil struck again, trying to abort the pregnancy prematurely. At 12 weeks of the pregnancy, I had a ruptured and twisted ovary (the pains hennn!!! was out of this world). The fibroid was growing bigger and was contending for space with the twins. The doctor had to perform cervical cerclage (tying of my cervix) to avoid the pregnancy from being pushed out. I was placed on an injection every 6 hrs just to make the lining of my womb thickened to hold the pregnancy and I was placed on bed rest for two months. When the pain of the ruptured cyst was becoming too much, my husband became scared. He had to tell the doctors to abort the pregnancy and removed the ruptured ovary. He said he still needs me alive and we could go for adoption.
I refused, I knew what God had said, that he will do what he says he will do. He is not a man that he should lie, neither the son of man that he should repent. Numbers 23:19. I was fully persuaded that He had promised he was also able to perform Romans 8:21. I also held on to God word that says I will not cast my young or miscarry Exodus 23:26. He that has started this journey will surely complete and perfect it, Philippians 1:6. These were my confessions throughout the turbulent period and the Lord honoured my faith.
At 36 weeks 5days, 4 days to our 6th year wedding anniversary, the Lord delivered me of a beautiful TWIN BABY BOYS, HALLELUYAH! PRAISE THE LORD. The delivery was quick, in less than 7 minutes the guys (TOLUWANI PETER& TOLUWALASE PAUL) were out and I was back on my feet in few hours. Each one was weighing about 2.5kg. The doctors marveled on how I was able to carry twins with the whole baggage of large fibroid and blasted ovary.
And when the Lord turns back the captivity of Zion, we were like them that dream dreams. PSALM 126:1. It was barely 6 months after I delivered the twins that I discovered I had conceived again. The pregnancy journey this time was smooth. I had no complications whatsoever but the delivery was tougher than the twins’, but to God be the glory I was delivered of another bouncing baby boy Toluwalore 17 MONTHS after the set of twin.
To my greatest amazement, after Toluwalore PATRICK was delivered through a caesarian section, the doctors confirmed they could not see any fibroid nor blasted ovary. How??? I call it a creative miracle. Whatever my father has not planted, shall be uprooted Mathew 15:13. He made all doctors’ report null and void. He uprooted all ailments from the roots, gave me joy for ashes, and turned my darkness to light; HE turns my ridicule to miracle, AN ABSOLUTE MIRACLE.
It’s never too late with God, keep believing and keep trusting. He will surely come through, it will be SUDDENLY.
Sade and her lovely children.
Yours will happen today in Jesus name.

Thursday, March 15, 2018

Marriage killer

_*DID YOU KNOW THE VIRUSES THAT KILL MARRIAGES?*_

· *Laziness* kills marriage
· *Suspicion* kills marriage
· *Lack of trust* kills marriage
· *Lack of mutual respect* kills marriage
· *Unforgiveness* kills marriage _(Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)_
·  *Arguments* kill marriage
· *Keeping secrets from your spouse* kills marriage
· *Every form of infidelity* kills marriage _(financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)_
· *Poor communication* kills marriage
. *Lies* easily kill marriage, _(be sincere to your spouse in every aspect)._
· *Relating more with your parents than your spouse* kills marriage
· *Nagging* kills marriage
· *Too much talk and careless talk* kills marriage
·  *Spending less or little time with your spouse* kills marriage
·  *Being too independent minded* kills marriage
· *Love for party, money and spending/partying* kills marriage
· *Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings or friends* kills marriage
·  *Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit* kills not only marriage but your life
·  *Spurning correction and reprimand* kills marriage.
·  *Always wearing a sad face and being moody* kills marriage. 
·  *FEMINISM ADVOCACY* kills marriage.
·  *Uncontrolled or hot temperament* kills marriage.
·  *Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God* kills marriage.
·  *Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse* kills marriage
·   *When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.*
·  *Lack of knowledge of the Word of God* kills marriage.

_*Please, save a marriage today by sharing this.*_

_May God bring healing to every troubled home and family._ 
*Amen.*

Monday, February 26, 2018

My wife os a Christian

*MY Wife is a Christina*

Richard said_ :
My wife is a Christian.
She lets me live my life. She doesn’t talk to me about anything biblical. She doesn’t curse me. She respects me as her husband and always asks for permission when going to church, to use the car and lot things. She keeps washing my clothes. She has never thrown away any beer in the fridge because she is a Christian.
She has never refused me sex because I am drunk. That woman is a Christian.” His friends stopped laughing. “You really mean this?” Daniel asked, “I think she claims she is Christian because you haven’t really tested her faith. She is pretending.” “No. No. No. She doesn’t pretend. She just lives the life of a Christian,” Richard defended. “What if we really test her faith? To see if she is the real deal?” Andrew dead-panned “I would not treat my wife that way. She is a good woman. She respects me and I wouldn’t go that extra mile,” Rich said adding: “Right now I am ashamed to even bring beer into the fridge again.” “I knew u were lying to us,” John said laughing mockingly. “Okay guys we can test her,” Richard agreed in resignation. “But I can assure you we will not break her.”
STAGE ONE OF THE TEST :
The tests began. From entering the house with his friends with soiled shoes, to eating all relish meant for the whole day, to drinking beer at the living room and living it very messy, Richard wife never complained. She never showed a sad face. She was always glad. In her heart she always sang the song “MUST JESUS BEAR THE CROSS ALONE AND ALL THE WORLD GO FREE”
STAGE TWO
This Saturday Richard came with his friends at 11:30 PM. Though his wife was asleep, he woke her up and demanded that she cook nsima for his 3 friends too. His wife never complained. She did that and when she was done she told her husband and his friends to go and eat. But Richard took the plates and threw them down shouting the food was undercooked and she had to cook again. His wife came to him graciously and kneeled down and said: “I am sorry honey.
I never meant to embarrass you in the presence of your friends. I am sorry the food was under-cooked. I will prepare you another meal.” It was Andrew who started crying. Then Daniel and John joined him. They threw themselves to the floor crying, their hands raised in the air in surrender.
Richard her husband also came apart uncontrollably. “I want to serve the God you serve. Take me to Him,” John said tears flowing freely down his cheeks.
Andrew said the same thing and did the rest.
They accepted CHRIST that day. They became born again. This story teaches us that sometimes God places us in situations deliberately so that we can win souls to HIM.
Are you experiencing a bad situation? There is a reason why God has allowed you to go through that.

Wednesday, February 7, 2018

God has been faithful

I met a friend of mine today that I hadn't seen in about 10years, I asked how he has been and he said "It hasn't been easy, but God has been faithful even when all hope was lost. He went ahead and told me his story which left me in tears... In his words..."I'm married with three children, I lost my job about two years ago and I searched for a new one to no avail. Things were really hard and at some point, we couldn't even feed, I kept going around asking for help... Then sometime last year., my last child who is just one had an issue with his scrotum and needed surgery, we were asked to pay #150, 000. I didn't have a single dime on me. I ran from pillar to post but nothing came out of it. Everyone gave different stories...So one night, I couldn't bear the whole thing anymore, so I decided to take my life. I waited for my wife and children to go to bed, I bid them goodnight and after I had made sure they were asleep, I took the rope, went to the sitting room and stay on the sofa...
I decided to wipe off every thing on my phone before hanging myself, but while I was looking at the phone, I decided to just rest my back and somehow I slept off(I don't know how that happened)slept from 12am-3am, woke up to two missed calls on my phone, both unknown
One international number and one national number, I called the national number, no one picked, I flashed the international number and the person called back, it was Dele (we all went to secondary school together) and he said "guy I don dey find your number a these years"
"i got it from my younger brother who got it from someone else sha. I got it about three days ago, I dey work now, but something just say make í call you this night. How you dey?" Sola, I burst into tears, like why this night" I looked at the rope which was still on the table,
Went inside, looked at my wife and couldn't stop crying, Dele kept asking "guy wetin dey worry you now, talk to me" I told him everything and he was like "guy, na because of dawan you dey cry? I go call you for morning.
First thing in the morning he asked his bro to transfer 200k to me, just like that, though I still haven't gotten a job, but now I know that I have a God who sees me and cares deeply for me... I asked him if I could share his story and he said it was okay.
See ehn, it doesn't matter what you are going through, you see this God, He sees you, He cares about you, He says He'll never leave or forsake you, through every shadow and every mountain... And He never lies. When He says it, He means it💝
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Friday, February 2, 2018

More people

More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them...