Thursday, March 15, 2018

Marriage killer


· *Laziness* kills marriage
· *Suspicion* kills marriage
· *Lack of trust* kills marriage
· *Lack of mutual respect* kills marriage
· *Unforgiveness* kills marriage _(Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)_
·  *Arguments* kill marriage
· *Keeping secrets from your spouse* kills marriage
· *Every form of infidelity* kills marriage _(financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)_
· *Poor communication* kills marriage
. *Lies* easily kill marriage, _(be sincere to your spouse in every aspect)._
· *Relating more with your parents than your spouse* kills marriage
· *Nagging* kills marriage
· *Too much talk and careless talk* kills marriage
·  *Spending less or little time with your spouse* kills marriage
·  *Being too independent minded* kills marriage
· *Love for party, money and spending/partying* kills marriage
· *Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings or friends* kills marriage
·  *Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit* kills not only marriage but your life
·  *Spurning correction and reprimand* kills marriage.
·  *Always wearing a sad face and being moody* kills marriage. 
·  *FEMINISM ADVOCACY* kills marriage.
·  *Uncontrolled or hot temperament* kills marriage.
·  *Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God* kills marriage.
·  *Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse* kills marriage
·   *When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.*
·  *Lack of knowledge of the Word of God* kills marriage.

_*Please, save a marriage today by sharing this.*_

_May God bring healing to every troubled home and family._ 

Monday, February 26, 2018

My wife os a Christian

*MY Wife is a Christina*

Richard said_ :
My wife is a Christian.
She lets me live my life. She doesn’t talk to me about anything biblical. She doesn’t curse me. She respects me as her husband and always asks for permission when going to church, to use the car and lot things. She keeps washing my clothes. She has never thrown away any beer in the fridge because she is a Christian.
She has never refused me sex because I am drunk. That woman is a Christian.” His friends stopped laughing. “You really mean this?” Daniel asked, “I think she claims she is Christian because you haven’t really tested her faith. She is pretending.” “No. No. No. She doesn’t pretend. She just lives the life of a Christian,” Richard defended. “What if we really test her faith? To see if she is the real deal?” Andrew dead-panned “I would not treat my wife that way. She is a good woman. She respects me and I wouldn’t go that extra mile,” Rich said adding: “Right now I am ashamed to even bring beer into the fridge again.” “I knew u were lying to us,” John said laughing mockingly. “Okay guys we can test her,” Richard agreed in resignation. “But I can assure you we will not break her.”
The tests began. From entering the house with his friends with soiled shoes, to eating all relish meant for the whole day, to drinking beer at the living room and living it very messy, Richard wife never complained. She never showed a sad face. She was always glad. In her heart she always sang the song “MUST JESUS BEAR THE CROSS ALONE AND ALL THE WORLD GO FREE”
This Saturday Richard came with his friends at 11:30 PM. Though his wife was asleep, he woke her up and demanded that she cook nsima for his 3 friends too. His wife never complained. She did that and when she was done she told her husband and his friends to go and eat. But Richard took the plates and threw them down shouting the food was undercooked and she had to cook again. His wife came to him graciously and kneeled down and said: “I am sorry honey.
I never meant to embarrass you in the presence of your friends. I am sorry the food was under-cooked. I will prepare you another meal.” It was Andrew who started crying. Then Daniel and John joined him. They threw themselves to the floor crying, their hands raised in the air in surrender.
Richard her husband also came apart uncontrollably. “I want to serve the God you serve. Take me to Him,” John said tears flowing freely down his cheeks.
Andrew said the same thing and did the rest.
They accepted CHRIST that day. They became born again. This story teaches us that sometimes God places us in situations deliberately so that we can win souls to HIM.
Are you experiencing a bad situation? There is a reason why God has allowed you to go through that.

Wednesday, February 7, 2018

God has been faithful

I met a friend of mine today that I hadn't seen in about 10years, I asked how he has been and he said "It hasn't been easy, but God has been faithful even when all hope was lost. He went ahead and told me his story which left me in tears... In his words..."I'm married with three children, I lost my job about two years ago and I searched for a new one to no avail. Things were really hard and at some point, we couldn't even feed, I kept going around asking for help... Then sometime last year., my last child who is just one had an issue with his scrotum and needed surgery, we were asked to pay #150, 000. I didn't have a single dime on me. I ran from pillar to post but nothing came out of it. Everyone gave different stories...So one night, I couldn't bear the whole thing anymore, so I decided to take my life. I waited for my wife and children to go to bed, I bid them goodnight and after I had made sure they were asleep, I took the rope, went to the sitting room and stay on the sofa...
I decided to wipe off every thing on my phone before hanging myself, but while I was looking at the phone, I decided to just rest my back and somehow I slept off(I don't know how that happened)slept from 12am-3am, woke up to two missed calls on my phone, both unknown
One international number and one national number, I called the national number, no one picked, I flashed the international number and the person called back, it was Dele (we all went to secondary school together) and he said "guy I don dey find your number a these years"
"i got it from my younger brother who got it from someone else sha. I got it about three days ago, I dey work now, but something just say make í call you this night. How you dey?" Sola, I burst into tears, like why this night" I looked at the rope which was still on the table,
Went inside, looked at my wife and couldn't stop crying, Dele kept asking "guy wetin dey worry you now, talk to me" I told him everything and he was like "guy, na because of dawan you dey cry? I go call you for morning.
First thing in the morning he asked his bro to transfer 200k to me, just like that, though I still haven't gotten a job, but now I know that I have a God who sees me and cares deeply for me... I asked him if I could share his story and he said it was okay.
See ehn, it doesn't matter what you are going through, you see this God, He sees you, He cares about you, He says He'll never leave or forsake you, through every shadow and every mountain... And He never lies. When He says it, He means it💝

Friday, February 2, 2018

More people

More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them...

Tuesday, January 23, 2018

Let it go

Let it go for 2007...
By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try
to talk another person into staying with you, loving
you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,
staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your
destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us that it
might be made manifest that they were not for us. For
had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them
stay.   Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've
got to know when people's part in your story is over
so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the
tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.  It's not
that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know
whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop
begging people to stay.  Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong
to you and was never intended for your life, then you
need to......  LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains.......

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth.... LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you........ LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and
revenge..... LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or
addiction..... LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets
your needs or talents.......... LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude....... LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel
better...... LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take
you to a new level in Him...... LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship.......... LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves........  LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed......... LET
IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your
hands off of it," then you need to........ LET IT

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!!


Get Right or Get Left... think about it, and then LET
IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"

During the next 60 seconds, Stop whatever you are
doing, and take this opportunity (Literally it is only
ONE minute!)

All you have to do is the following:

You simply say a Prayer for the person that sent you
this message

Next, send this message to everyone you know. In a
while, more people will
have prayed for you and you would have obtained a lot
of people praying for

Next, stop and think and appreciate God's power in
your life, for doing
what you know is pleasing to Him.
If you are not ashamed, send this message ..... Only
if you believe.

"Yes, I love my God. He is my fountain of Life and My
He Keeps me going day and night. Without Him, I am no
one. But with Him, I can do everything, Christ is my

Remember God loves you and watches over you all the
time. Jesus love's you.

Wednesday, January 27, 2016

“While they were eating, Jesus took bread

“While they were eating, Jesus took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to His disciples, saying, ‘Take and eat; this is My body.’” (Matthew 26:26) The night before Jesus was crucified He ate His last supper with His disciples. Judas Iscariot was one of Jesus’ twelve disciples; he agreed to betray Jesus. Yet Jesus still ate the last supper even with Judas Iscariot. Do you have someone in your life who is causing you trouble? You can still pray for them.
Jesus took bread, and “when He had given thanks, He broke it and said, ‘This is My body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of Me.’ In the same way, after supper He took the cup, saying, ‘This cup is the new covenant in My blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of Me.’” For whenever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until He comes.”
When we take communion, we honour and remember the death of our Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus took on Himself the sins of the world — and He paid the penalty for your sins and mine. He gave His body and His blood for you and for me. How great is the love of God!
Jesus ate the last supper knowing that His time had come. He did not hold back from the cross, but He gave Himself to the will of God His Father to be crucified. To the end, He loved His disciples — and He loves you and me. If you can be a part of a local church, we encourage you to go and to take communion in remembrance of the great sacrifice of Jesus Christ for us all.
Let us pray and Give thanks to God for His great love for us to give
His one and only Son
Give thanks to Jesus Christ for willingly laying down His life for us
Give thanks to God the Holy Spirit for coming into our lives to fill us with God’s love
Jesus love’s you and Jesus is coming soon. I will like to know if you have been encourage by this messages please let us know. Thank you! Can we pray for you? You can just hit "reply" to this email and send us an email with your prayer request

Friday, December 25, 2015



1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake not wen ur asleep
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile,crack jokes and laugh more.U avoid wrinkles nd aging.
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
15. Call your family often.
16. Each day do give something good to others.
17. Forgive everyone for everything.
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
20. What other people think of you is none of your business,its deirs
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will.So do pls stay in touch.
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
Jesus love's you