Heartbroken

                                                          


                                          

Heartbroken
It has happened to me so I know.
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them. The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
What have you been going through in your love life?
Have you been saying you can’t love again, because she broke your heart? That will last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.  I can tell you this because it has happened to me.
She – I don’t think I want to do it
He -   Do what I ask
She - You will feel bad if I say it
He - say it I will not feel bad
She -no you will
He- Is it about marriage?
She -Yes I don’t want to do it
He -Is that so
She – yes, don’t be angry
He - so should I call it off?
She - yes
He - so I did   
 Do you know what? I am still in love with her that can not change. I thank God I did, for what ever happened to me.
Happened for my sake for God has seen my tomorrow that I did not see. The day I have forgotten so fast.
But I will always love her for love cannot die, we let go.

Success in marriage

Success in marriage is more than finding the right person; it is being the right person.

MARRIAGE ADVICE

The following question came into my mind about being in love and its importance to a marriage, can you love like a husband or wife according to the 

Bible? I love him but I’m not in love with him.”

I must confess I struggled about being honest and straightforward in my reply.

Nevertheless, I decided I’d better be. Here is my reply. I began by saying,

“I can understand how you feel at present.

I imagine there’s a sense of UN fulfillment and incompleteness about your marriage. It sounds like you could do with some guidance about marriage.”

All I can see here is that you are not in love with and if you don’t feel it there is no need of going in to marriage at all.

Falling in love

Falling in love and being in love may be a nice feeling but it isn’t the basis or foundation of a marriage.

The basis and foundation of a marriage is a spiritual union and covenant between a man and a woman through a marriage ceremony before God.

For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

Ephesians 5:31-nkjv

I hope you find real moments in your life,
If love is all we need, then what is stopping us?
Real moments and loving
Barbara De Angelis, PHD.
“There is only one path to Heaven. On Earth, we call it love”
KAREN GOLDMAN
Of all the wonders life on Earth has to offer, none is greater to me than love,
Love infuses life with meaning.
It performs magic and miracles. It brings light where there was darkness and hope where there was despair. It is your greatest teacher, and your most constant blessing. Love is a force more formidable than any other.
 It is invisible – it cannot be seen, nor measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy then any material possession could.  Once you have love, no one can take it away from you. Only you can relinquish it, if you wish.
Love is the magician of the universe. It creates everything out of noting.
 One moment, it isn’t there, and the next –POOF- it appears in its entire splendor and you greet it with amazement.
And what delights it produces out of thin air-smiles, laughter, goose, bumps, hot flashes, tender words, silly name, happy tears, and, most of all, life.
Love produced you. Without it, you wouldn’t be here at all.
Love’s greatest gift is its. Ability to make everything it touches sacred
Love sanctifies life. Where love is, you are given a glimpse of the sacrament.
You rise above your humanness and see the world through heavenly eyes.
Your child, you’re beloved, your dog or cat, your garden, or whatever it is that you love appears adorable, precious, supremely beautiful, and somehow perfect in spite of its imperfections.
And love also consecrates time and place and possession, bestowing special stature upon them: The day you first met your husband; the anniversary of your wedding; the special bench in the park where you go to talk; the rocking chair in which you nursed your child: the old afghan your grandmother made you; your little girl’s first note that said
“I love you, Mommy”; those become sacred artifacts commemorating the presence of love in your life. But most of all, I believe that love offers you an opportunity for deep, spiritual awakening, for when you love, the usual boundaries which separate you from something else dissolves instantly you transcend the illusion of separation which defines human existence, and you experience oneness. Suddenly, you are no longer alone in the universe.
There is a flow between your being and the being of whomever you love.
All that is you is pouring out into them, and all that is their is pouring out into you. Your souls are dancing together.
Perhaps you have had moment like this, but not known exactly why they moved you so much…
You and your husband stand above the crib of your newborn child, watching her sleep. Her tiny body rises and falls with the rhythm of her peaceful breathing, and you turn to your husband and his eyes meet yours.
All at once, you feel a force of love circling from you to him to your daughter and back to you again, and as you flow in the fullness of the energy, you are aware of a timeless bound that connect you together.
Noting else exists. You feel totally complete.
 It’s late at night and you’re sitting outside on your back porch listening to the crickets and watching the stars.
Your faithful dog who’s been your best friend for ten years pads up alongside of you, and nuzzles his head under your arm.
As you hold his warm body close to yours, you suddenly feel a surge of love for him, and the unconditional devotion he has always shown you.
He raises his head and, for a long moment, looks at you as if to say,” Yes, I feel it too.
 “The night swallows both of you up into an eternal peace, and it seems you are the only two beings in the world.
This moment is all yours. This is the power of love –it takes you on a journey from separation to Oneness.
It penetrates the normal boundaries in which you live, the boundaries that make you fee like “you,” distinct and unrelated to anyone or anything else.
You know that you are not your husband or wife or dog or friend or the sky.
And yet, in those very real moments of love, “you” turns into “us,” something infinitely more fulfilling than you alone.
In this way, love creates an unlimited experience with no boundaries, no edges. It allows you to travel out of yourself.
Now this beautiful thought is by Philly S A. Are you an author, writer, dream writer, whoever, you are. In whatever, field you may be, don’t just read through this motivating piece of writing; let it speak for your actions henceforth. Allow it to breath inside of you and make a positive impact in your daily life. have a lovely day.................

The pain of love

Things we don’t understand and we will never do, unless God let us into it.

 When you do not understand what love is, you will never see what love is saying to you.

 For love is fun, love is more than fun, love is pain, love is a test, love understands each other, and love is going for what you believe in.

Love is moments you can never forget, love is acceptance, and love can never change. Love is trust, love stands by you when no one cares.

You cannot kill love you can only let go.

Marriage is not for your family but for you alone and your husband or wife.

Every one needs love and a cry for love yet they don’t see it the way it is

Love is like flaws that you alone see.

You don’t marry because your family wants you to; you marry because you are in love. Not because your family wants you to.

But because you’ve found love and that is what every good family wants for their children. Love makes that you are, not what you hope to be.

The pain of love, the precious gifts of life love.

Those that have it don’t even know what they have.

Yet every body looks for love.

God help us oh. You don’t look for what you want for self in your only daughter. I have gone through the pain of love in my life but not like this in the past days, yet she is what I want, yes I can go through it again for her.

The pain of life; love Some of us find love in time of pain it draws people together, they bring out the best time when there is a flood, earthquake or a hurricane of life.  The forces of love always rally to guide us through the dark days. The pain of life love, when we bring enough love to the darkness.

It will illuminate our heart with light and sooth our pain.

Trials are but lessons that you failed to learn, presented once again.

My wish for you is that you have many happy days and few sorrows.

But when those difficult times come, may you meet them with love.

I have seen all this in my life and still going through it.

It is well; all that matters is to remain in love.

 If you cannot stop the waves, then you can learn to surf.

"Care not for the truth of the world,
for the truth the world teaches keeps you in fear.
Care for the love that has been carefully placed within your heart,
for it will teach you all you need to learn."
 

LET NO UNWHOLESOME WORDS PROCEED FROM YOU MOUTH AGAINST YOUR WIFE.

LET NO UNWHOLESOME WORDS PROCEED FROM YOU MOUTH AGAINST YOUR WIFE BUT ONLY SUCH A WORD AS IS GOOD FOR EDIFICATION –

                                              EPHESIANS. 4:29

Their husbands accuse sometimes women of being stupid, worthless, mad of unfriendly and senseless. This shouldn’t be thought or uttered by good husband, unwholesome words against his wife. It is affects morally.

It affects her negatively, physically, emotionally, spiritually and morally making her to become demoralized and hardened. She will be insensitive to the needs of others around her especially that of her immediate family.

HOW MUCH DO YOU KNOW ABOUT SEX?

                      
  HOW MUCH DO YOU KNOW ABOUT SEX?
Sex is a beauty treatment; scientific tests did find out that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes their hair shine and skin smooth.

1.    Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.
  Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that                                    romantic dinner.

2.    Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body.
 It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps, and don’t need special sneakers! Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well -being.

3.    The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. This subtle sex perfume drives the opposite sex crazy! Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world.
      It is 10 times more EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.

4.    Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing plaque build – up.

5.    Sex relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.
A lot of lovemaking can unlock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine.
It can help combat asthma and hay fever.

The Infinite Memories...

 It gives strength and grows beyond you, to boast you’re beloved.

You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away.

Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. Whether near or far, you know they are yours, and can wait.

Love cannot die,we go with it.

Love is like a blazing flame

Love is friendship set on fire

Age does not protect you from love

But love to some extent protects you from age

Love is like an ocean it goes down so deep

Love is like a rose beauty you want to keep

Love is like a river that will never end

Love is like a dove with a beautiful message to send

Love is like a song that goes on and on forever

Love is like a prisoner it’s to you that I surrender

Through all eternity to thee a joyful song I will raise, for oh

Eternity is too short to utter all thy praise

Your words are food, your breath is my wine you are everything to me

‘Love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you when you are not here to share my days and nights my life is so incomplete without you. You are my heart, my soul the ‘oneness’ I had known to seek, without you I merely exist From day to day with you I know that I will find all that I have been searching for my heart that heart is you.

Love cannot die, we go with it.