Here are several truths that make up the vision.

Here are several truths that make up the vision.

    1. We have been brought together for the purpose of helping each other

1.    Our relationship is a precious gift-it will take us through whatever we need to learn to become conscious, loving human beings.

2.    The challenges and difficulties we experience will always illuminate out most needed lessons.

Because we have made a commitment to accept this purposeful vision of our love, we experience the struggles and problems we encounter in a sacred context.

When we argue, we are angry at one another, when we get frustrated and feel like turning away, our vision shines like a beacon of light in the fog, reminding us that there is a higher purpose to the everyday difficulties we’re challenged by.

We remember that we have chosen to travel together for a reason, and by remembering, we can more quickly release the anger, move beyond the hurt, forgive, and find our eternal bond of love that is always present underneath.

It is easy to forget the true purpose of your relationship when you are busy with work, children, and family obligations.

When you forget your purpose as a couple, you lose your way.

A relationship that has lost its way will stop moving and growing, for it won’t know where it is supposed to go.

Feeding the Soul of Your Relationship

You need real moments of intimacy, of oneness, to nourish the spirit of your love so that it will continue to grow.

Sharing these moments with your partner reminds you both of your timeless connection, your purpose in finding one another, and thus gives you renewed vision and courage to get through the challenges of living together.

Real moments are the lifeblood of intimate relationships.

Without real moments, the soul of your relationship will die.

You may still choose to ignore your lack of fulfillment and stay together, but your relationship will exist as an empty shell, an arrangement of convenience you make in order not to be alone.

Having real moments of intimacy doesn’t mean just being with someone.

It’s what happens when you are together that makes it a real moment of love you can be physically together and be a million miles away because you are not in the real moment emotionally.

You can create a real moment on the phone, even though you’re calling from 1,000 miles away, simply because you are letting the boundaries go and sharing the deepest parts of your heart.