Can there be love at first sight?

 

1. Can there be love at first sight?

Sometimes when you meet someone for the first time, you immediately sense an attraction.

This happens because your subconscious recognizes similarities you share with that person.

This instant recognition is not love, but provides an opportunity for you to get to know each other and possibly fall in love.

 This is nature’s way of bringing two people who share compatibility together. Sometimes this happens, but the people involved miss the opportunity to make a physical connection with each other, but the mental connection is clear. Yes there can be love at first sight.

2. Why do people need love?

mother’s love, which is considered the highest form of love, is associated with care and protection.

so when someone feels loved, he\she feels cared for and protected; he\she feels safe. 

In the days of pain, a man who love’s a woman would do whatever it takes, including risking his life to provide the necessities for her survival.  In return his wife would show her love by providing the comforts of home, such as, treating his wounds, giving him love, sexual pleasure, and bearing him children.

3. Could you create sexual chemistry?   

If at the beginning of a relationship or a short period thereafter you do not feel a sexual attraction for your partner, it is unlikely that this chemistry would develop.

Like every other thing, there are exceptions, but with sexual chemistry, you either have it or you don’t and there are reasons for it.

4.         How can I tell if I have a long-lasting relationship?

You must honestly evaluate yourself to determine your strength and weaknesses, and what you have to offer a prospective mate.

 For example, are you available?

Are you of good character, and, are you committed to personal growth?

There are ways you can rate yourself.

And if you score reasonably high on the eligibility scale, you can confidently consider yourself a good catch.

5 Should I use my friend to help me find my soul mate?

Yes, friends are an excellent source to assist you in your search for your ideal partner. Friend already knows you and may have a pretty good idea of your taste. Also, friends, especially those already in a relationship, would want to see you happy. But, there are some precautions you ought to take when dealing with friends. For example, let your friends know your preferences beforehand, this way you can avoid ill feelings and possible embarrassment.

6. How can you tell if he\she truly loves you?

Every relationship is different, but there are some telltale signs once you get to know your partner better.

By learning these signs, you can be reasonably certain if true love does not exist between you and your partner.

 Sometimes an opportunity may arise when true love can be

Positively proven, but such cases are rare.

7.    Should I stop seeing him?

This new guy I’m dating is okay, but I found out his brother and uncles are serving term in jail, should I stop seeing him?

You cannot always judge a person by his\her family’s standards; ones personality can be different from those of their families.

 However, be aware, that a person’s upbringing has a lot to do with how he\she turns out.

It’s necessary to obtain information about the family of the person with whom you intend to share your life.

For example, find out why his family is in jail.

Someone from a family of habitual criminals may have similar personalities.

8.         Find me someone suitable to marry outside the country?

Could international dating services find me someone suitable to marry outside the country? Yes, you can use the dating services out side your country but you have to know your selves before you talk marriage.

Could international dating services have become quite popular in recent times; many men claim they have found suitable partners through these services.

9 Are men’s threats ended by women who are independent, and earn more money than they do?

Traditionally, men feel needed when their wives depended on them as the Principal providers.

This status identified men as heads of their households.

Today most men share equal partnerships with their wives in the home.

But while this may be true for the majority, some men continue to live by the old traditions.

To some of these men, they may view an independent wife as a threat to their masculinity.

10  When is the right time for a woman to have sex with a new partner?

It is entirely up to the woman, but she should be aware that having sex too soon might cause a man to treat her as a casual sex partner.

On the other hand, delaying sex too long may cause a man to think something is wrong with her.

 There are ways, however, for a woman, if she chooses to delay sex but keep a man’s interest.  (But from me to you is that you keep God interest first, for is marriage before sex)

11  Should a couple live together before they get married?

There are some things you can only find out about a person, if you live with him\her day in and out under the same roof.

Living together before marriage might be a good way to confirm compatibility between two people.

 It is important however for both partners to agree beforehand on their reasons for living together.

 If living together is a prerequisite to getting married, there are certain precautions a couple should take.

12  Does marriage mean I am morally committed to my partner for life?

Traditionally, people remained in unhappy marriages because of their commitment. “Until death do us PART.?” Today, with the practice of easy divorce, people are refusing to stay married if they are unhappy.

 Hence, people are not staying married because of their commitment, but they become committed to their partners when the marriage is a happy one. But when you are in love yes it means committed for life.

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